Sunday, 6 September 2015

Happy Sunday To Every One/Am Back.


Hello My Lovelies....Lemme first of all start by saying Good morning to everyone and i wish you guys a blessed Sunday.

Am very sorry for going off without any hint whatsoever...so sorry about that..sometimes things that happens, are not usually planned for... just like in my case..

I never thought someone i trusted and always vouch for could hurt me without a second thought and after the harm has been done,you coming back to beg through phone calls,text messages and wanting to see me...like seriously dude,your miserable ass shoulda told you that i will never wanna have anything to do with a nincompoop like you...there are some effing friendships that are supposed to be terminated no matter how old and way back it has gone,


I read a write up yesterday on trendwithgloria were she talked about forgiveness...GLO hell no..there are some shits some niggers would do and they are not meant to be forgiven...

I was so hurt and pained that i cried myself to bed since on Thursday night it happened till Saturday morning that i had to effing get off social media for those days,putting aside every damn thing i loved doing..my mobiles were all off, i stayed aloof from everyone at home and one expects me to forgive without taking my own pound of flesh? mstweeh..

It took the intervention of my bff to bring me out of my shell...am an introvert so you guys can imagine the pain such a person will go through when he or she is hurt..i prefer sharing my problems with me myself and I. my BFF said some stuffs to me and when i thought of it, i was like mehnn this he goat of a dude is so not worth the stress and with that ,it jolted me back to my senses...the funny part in all my BFF said was that assuming he was boyfriend,  what will you do? you'll just kill yourself abi? kill my self over a man....tufiakwa...abeg they should all park in their lanes..that's why i share the feminist ideology..women should fight ,struggle,hustle to make something for themselves even if you are married...what we ladies that know is that men are so effing scared of successful ladies..no woman should look down on herself or try to be better for a man and not for yourself. There is nothing bad in off seating a man and still be humble about it........Marriage,having kids,money etc is not and will never be your ticket to keep a man or better still to make heaven...

Most times we might think that people we don't know are those that hurt us but my dearies that's a big fat lie...maybe you should wait till someone close to you hurt you then sometimes you'll appreciate strangers more.(not that you should all the time oo cos some can be dangerous).

Never put your trust in people...there should always be a limit to things..

Am happy i've decided to let go of an old friendship to make myself stronger..and yes i have forgiven him but i will make him taste a little just as a warning sign that wherever he would go in his entire lifetime, he will never ever dream of hurting people he calls his friends.... AM GOOD NOW..that was a bit long...i know..i just wanted to offload a little bit.

Oya for those that missed the shoe lover...i missed ya'll too.....and thanks to everyone that reached out to me...love ya'll so very much...are you guys noticing the rate of fake designer shoes up and down?...nawa ooo..

Dress well to church ooo...

14 comments:

Amaka Hundeyin said...

Oya come here *hugs*
I've hurt I've been hurt, I've learnt, I've taught, I've been taught... And I've moved on!
Hiya

Ugo Egwumba said...

Happy Sunday Glowy...
Who the heck wants to take the glow out of our glowyshoes... I cast and bind.
But I thought I warned you in my post: He will surely hurt you

I am glad you are back. I only beseech you that you do not throw away the advice of forgiveness by TrendwithGloria. Let it go... Show him that he is the bigger loser by bringing to bear your maturity in the shade of his little mindedness; that's the best revenge in this kind of situation. He will learn his lessons, but already it is too late to come back.

To all the Ladies: Sorry for the many times we keep hurting you... we could just be confused like that (young&confused : old&confused).
Chai...

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Paola Lauretano said...

Enjoy your sunday Glowy!!!!
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Mimi Chinonso said...

Happy Sunday too and thank God You are better now.

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uthman saheed said...

Now am confirming it again that, we do have the most intense betrayal with those we really trust, within our family, with the people we respect so much. No matter how strong we are, this nature of betrayal will hurt us and bring us the most pain, make us suffer, and distress us.

I can't imagined Glory ( an active blogger ) could shotdown everything because she was hurt by a man. This really show the gravity of the offense, or the high level at which you placed your friend.

Betrayals make us more stronger and exposed...he had played his own, now left for you do you yours. And the best way to revenge is by FORGIVING. I know you won't wanna hear this.

In a friendship circle, forgiveness is never optional, is a must. Keeping grudges with your friend will only eat you up inside and cause you more problem. So try to forgive as soon as possible.

But don't lose your guide by thinking someone cannot hurt you.

Peleeeeee...and welikomu back.

Nma Ojike said...

ThankGod you've bounced back...that's the best part of the story
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Gloria Okaiman said...

Glowy am glad you are fine now and i more excited that you read my yesterday's post.. I am convinced that that post was for you and I know you will get over the revenge spirit with time.. Revenge is not sweet when it's is humanly done..
We all get hurt, we all have our stories, we have been betrayed but it makes us stronger and better..




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favour moyse said...

welcome back don't mind d bobofor making our glo angry

Chinco bee said...

Eyaaaa sowie sweerie. Have you stopped crying? Lol

You will be fine. Thank God you are back and your sins are forgiven child....

naijaflo said...

ThankGod you're over it and back.Welcome back. Just felt you were busy as I have too. Please my dear Glowy, just try and forgive the person.You don't have to forget. Some people are emotional vampires that derive pleasure in making others unhappy. Don't succumb to their satisfaction. You can give your distance and show forgiveness from a distance but let the person be responsible for his sin don't carry part of it for him by being unforgiving. At the end of the day with time, you'll be glad they did what they did because what can't break you, makes you stronger.You can't loose what you never had.Good riddance. Besides God is trying to tell you never to trust anybody but Him because he will never disappoint or make you unhappy.As time goes on, you'll be glad things like this happened because like me now nothing shakes me. Everybody has done their worse. What is it that you want to do that I haven't experienced before?Nothing surprises me. I just pray for people to be at peace with the way I am now. cos I don't notice negativity. Have a pleasant week dear.....
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bolatito fashina said...

The fact that it's even coming from a guy sef is annoying . a girlfriend of mine also betrayed me 2 years ago I got to know last week. There is no need killing yourself over them. Just put them at arms length and pretend as if they don't exist. I have cut off my relationship with her. Imagine all that my family did to her and she still acted like a fool because she don get small change. I refuse to let that get to me. So don't let it affect you, it's not worth it

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Alabekee Ola said...

Who is this person that has hurt my Glowy so badly? Sweerie, don't mind whoever it is that's trying to take away your joy. Their plan will never work because no one is capable of taking away your joy. Oya arise and shine, and let bye-gone be by-gone. I'm glad you're back on your feet. Kissesssss
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