Sunday, 6 September 2015
Happy Sunday To Every One/Am Back.
Hello My Lovelies....Lemme first of all start by saying Good morning to everyone and i wish you guys a blessed Sunday.
Am very sorry for going off without any hint whatsoever...so sorry about that..sometimes things that happens, are not usually planned for... just like in my case..
I never thought someone i trusted and always vouch for could hurt me without a second thought and after the harm has been done,you coming back to beg through phone calls,text messages and wanting to see me...like seriously dude,your miserable ass shoulda told you that i will never wanna have anything to do with a nincompoop like you...there are some effing friendships that are supposed to be terminated no matter how old and way back it has gone,
I read a write up yesterday on trendwithgloria were she talked about forgiveness...GLO hell no..there are some shits some niggers would do and they are not meant to be forgiven...
I was so hurt and pained that i cried myself to bed since on Thursday night it happened till Saturday morning that i had to effing get off social media for those days,putting aside every damn thing i loved doing..my mobiles were all off, i stayed aloof from everyone at home and one expects me to forgive without taking my own pound of flesh? mstweeh..
It took the intervention of my bff to bring me out of my shell...am an introvert so you guys can imagine the pain such a person will go through when he or she is hurt..i prefer sharing my problems with me myself and I. my BFF said some stuffs to me and when i thought of it, i was like mehnn this he goat of a dude is so not worth the stress and with that ,it jolted me back to my senses...the funny part in all my BFF said was that assuming he was boyfriend, what will you do? you'll just kill yourself abi? kill my self over a man....tufiakwa...abeg they should all park in their lanes..that's why i share the feminist ideology..women should fight ,struggle,hustle to make something for themselves even if you are married...what we ladies that know is that men are so effing scared of successful ladies..no woman should look down on herself or try to be better for a man and not for yourself. There is nothing bad in off seating a man and still be humble about it........Marriage,having kids,money etc is not and will never be your ticket to keep a man or better still to make heaven...
Most times we might think that people we don't know are those that hurt us but my dearies that's a big fat lie...maybe you should wait till someone close to you hurt you then sometimes you'll appreciate strangers more.(not that you should all the time oo cos some can be dangerous).
Never put your trust in people...there should always be a limit to things..
Am happy i've decided to let go of an old friendship to make myself stronger..and yes i have forgiven him but i will make him taste a little just as a warning sign that wherever he would go in his entire lifetime, he will never ever dream of hurting people he calls his friends.... AM GOOD NOW..that was a bit long...i know..i just wanted to offload a little bit.
Oya for those that missed the shoe lover...i missed ya'll too.....and thanks to everyone that reached out to me...love ya'll so very much...are you guys noticing the rate of fake designer shoes up and down?...nawa ooo..
Dress well to church ooo...
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