Hey Lovlies....This is the gist layed out in its raw form..The friend of the lady in question is gonna read our comments thereby using it it to advice her friend.
Am gonna type it the way she told me..so you guys can understand..
There is this friend of mine,we've been friends for more than five years and Glory trust me when i say this girl's ways is nothing to write home about..me i know i have my own in my body but Glory my own have not and will not reach her own..there is so much to tell you but lemme just gist you the recent happenings.. There is this guy she said she was dating his name is mr ben(not real name) she loves the guy very much that she said, that the guy use to treat her well,do whatever she says and all of that..and me i was like ehnn..so in the guys mind his way of treating you right,is only to be taking you to joint and be eating fish,isi ewu,drinks and you'll come back home and he will take from you..then the next thing she said was that every guy have their own way of spoiling a girl that they might not necessarily take you to them fancy places but deep down you know this guy loves you... Glory i felt angry when she said those nonsense that i didn't know when i started giving her the talk of her life..
"foolish girl...you are dating someone that never gives you money except when he wants you to cook for him in his house...all you do is play wife and bad bitch character..you descended so low to the fact that you sleep with his friends after they convince you with God knows what...geez..the other time you told me that when you did some levels and got money,the next thing you did was to go and furnish the guy's kitchen for him when you can use that money and help your family or even help yourself rather you wasted it on some useless guy that it is really obvious he is just using you as his bedmate,cook and housemaid yet you not benefitting nada from him..you will leave your father's house and pretend that you going too visit your sis in her school whereas you going to stay with that low life idiot..Cynthia(not real name) even if your body is scratching you, can't you just control yourself? why giving room for this guys to mess you up and the worst of it is that he just broke up with you and you there cursing him saying that any girl that enter's the guy's kitchen will not have rest because it is your sweat you used in furnishing the kitchen she wants to enjoy..my dear let me tell you something all this so called curses you think you laying up and down,it will not catch the guy..you knew he was a player befor you walked in with your two eyes and legs wide open.
Babes you've done D&C for this guy couple of times yet you've not learnt your lesson.see the other time you went to see gbenga(not real name),you slept with him and the stupid boy gave you to this friend without you knowing and you slept with that one and that one also gave you to this friend ..in totally you slept with the three friends and now you telling me that Gbenga said you should come out and hang out with him that you can bring your friends along and you asking me to follow you,something must be following you from your village by the way how will you feel sitting in the midst of the three friends you've slept with..abeg your matter have tire me.. Glory that's how i walked out on her...she has done so many things that am ashamed she'z my friend yet she still keeps coming close to me...Glory i think when totally stranegers on your blog give their take it will go a long way in me talking to her or maybe i might just refer her to the post so she could come and read comments.."
Love (not real name) as i told you before,you've tried your best to talk to her as a concerned friend,tell her to go for hiv test,that she is a woman..if she continues like this, she will end up spoiling herself and no man will want to be with her and that money she thinks she's jumping up and down looking for, she might end up using that money to treat various diseases that will catch her.she has younger sisters,,how will she feel when she see's them following the path she is going through..
Well for me such kind of girl cannot be my friend cos am team"you should be independant without a man cos most of these guys you see around are not worth your saliva sef.. i hate hearing or seeing girls been treated like trash..it pains me alot....that's my two cents will leave the room for you guys to say your minds o jare.